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Well, how does a parent become patience when trying to help your child with some Activities? I had to keep praying for myself. Then a light went on in my head I was never patience for anything I threw a tantrum every time it took to long to get what I wanted. So did I leave before the miracle happen due to me being impatience?  Yes, as I look back by waiting a little longer there could have been a miracle.   But, no I was to busy throwing tantrum to realized and say wait lets see what happen. One thing I did have patience for is the type of guy I wanted to marry. When I was in relationships if by 2 years everything was not mentally check off I would dump that person. I knew for some reason that is not what I wanted as far as a relationship. 

Like Run-DMC said, "if you find you don't like my ways Well, you can send me back in 30 days".

            I would sent them packing in less than 24 mos. I am glad I had patience for that because I see women my age still have the drama you go thru when you start  relationships. Things like hanging out in the streets, arguing, cheating on each other, ect. Who would want to be in sum stuff like that? One day I was at the doctors office  this woman was on the phone with some guy telling him
"Oh you going to stay with her well I about to hang up the phone".   She said that about several different times and she was older than me. I said to myself hell to the naw. I am so glad I had the patience to find what I need in a man. If I did not I would have been doing the same thing the woman at the doctor's office was doing. She was not being patience for the man of her dreams. Instead she got the first thing she saw.

I often asked women why they continue to stay in dysfunctional relationship I had gotten 3 different answers. One stated all men cheat why get into another relationship when the same thing gonna happen in the last one besides why should she start over. The second one stated she liked guys with nothing so she can boss them around because they do not have anywhere else to go. The final one takes the cake for me she only wants to have one baby daddy that is why all of them are in dysfunctional relationships. All 3 of these ladies are miserable and lost themselves in the process.  Why do you want to be  with someone who is with you for shelter, food and clothes?   Maybe we as women shoud stand and not longer accept be there door mat.